Part of my job requires me to handle student conduct situations. It’s not my favorite part of the job, but I do value the conversations I have with students. One of the things we talk about is grace…and how some actions lessen the amount of grace the college wants to give you.

So, when reading an excerpt of Seth Godin’s book Linchpin today and I saw this passage called “Graceful?” I thought, I’d post it. Seth’s a smart man and his words are convicting and affirming at the same time!

GRACEFUL?

There’s a never-ending worldwide shortage.

Graceful is artistic, elegant, subtle and effective. Graceful makes things happen and brings light but not heat.

Graceful doesn’t mean invisible, hiding, fearful or by the book. And graceful certainly doesn’t include hectoring, lecturing or bullying.

Audrey Hepburn was graceful. Wayne Gretzky was too.

A graceful person gets things done, but does it in a way you’d be happy to have repeated.

A graceful person raises the game of everyone nearby, causing a race to the top, not the bottom.

Graceful is the person we can’t live without, the one who makes a difference. The linchpin. Everywhere I turn, I see people bringing grace to their families, their communities, and their work.

The things is, no one is born graceful. It’s not a gift, it’s a choice.

Every day, we get a chance to give others the benefit of the doubt. Every day, we get the opportunity to give others our support, our confidence and our trust. And, yet most days, we hesitate.

There are so many things on our agenda, so many people who want a piece of us, so many things to do, so many obligations–of course, it’s tempting to merely get it done, to phone it in.

None of those shortcuts will make the impact you’re capable of making, and none of those approaches will bring you closer to those you’re here to serve.

The industrial age is ending, and a new one is beginning. It produces art instead of stuff and it rewards gracefulness.

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